Hello, I'm Miss Jenn Davis. I'm a Phone Dominatrix, Domestic Disciplinarian, Author (check me out on Amazon!), Spanking Model, Fetish Model and Content Producer. You can find out more about me on my website:
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S. Nicole Lane interviewed me for an article on crying. My portion was about crying as a cathartic release but her entire article is much more than just that. It's about Dacryphilia. Dacryphilia is a form of paraphilia (sexual arousal from something outside the norm) where a person is aroused by tears or sobbing. The entire article is here: "
Does Crying Turn You On?" by S. Nicole Lane and I really urge you read it. It's interesting, informative, and goes much more in-depth than what I wrote here.
If you don't have the time to read the entire article, which really goes in depth on the matter. Here is the portion that she wrote from interviewing me in regards to crying as cathartic release:
Crying as a Cathartic Release
Miss Jenn Davis, a professional disciplinarian and fetish model, explained that many of her submissives
want to cry. She said that before seeing many of them, they usually send an email that states their goal is “to
get spanked to the point of crying.” She went on to say that, “For some, it may be the bond that develops between spanker and spankee, and feeling unconditionally loved at the time of spanking. Feeling like the spanker really cares about their personal well-being and that they are being spanked out of a place of love and wanting to bring out the best in that person. If the person is wanting to be spanked for a reason or role play, I explain that if they want to have a better chance at crying, they need to have something that is an emotional reason for them."
As a professional spanker, Davis finds that, “Crying is very
cathartic and and being able to ‘release’ those pent up emotions, all that stuff bottled up inside, sometimes for years or decades, is an amazing experience.”
Since tears are associated with negative emotions, it is often common to forget that tears, or sobbing, can be a therapeutic experience. For the crier, releasing their emotion can be a natural thing that results in them feeling refreshed and renewed.
More about Miss Jenn Davis:
Miss Jenn Davis has spanked more bottoms than most. As a well-respected author and educator, she specializes in the playful sides of BDSM, from spanking (her first love) to ABDL, feminization, and humiliation.
With insights gained from years in the lifestyle, she brings a unique perspective matched with practical advice for those interested in expanding their current relationships. Friendly and non-judgmental Jenn has helped individuals and couples of all types discover and express their fun and erotic inner selves.
She has appeared in print, online, TV and podcasts as an advocate for authentic human expression. Jenn is available for media appearances and individualized consulting. To contact her, send an email to: missjenn@pm.me
